Thursday, January 29, 2015

Motivate Your Child (Review)

Do you have a child that needs to be constantly reminded to finish daily chores? Or one that doesn’t care about schoolwork? Or one that is obedient, but doesn’t take initiative to do tasks without being asked?

Motivating my child to be obedient, cooperative, and responsible has long been a struggle for me, so when I heard that Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told was soon to be released, I knew I had to read it! The focus of Motivate Your Child is reaching the heart of your child. The authors, Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN, emphasize that real change comes from the heart. Although we parents may be able to force outward changes through behavior modification techniques or threats of punishment, those changes won’t be lasting if they don’t actually  come from the heart.

Motivate Your Child is packed with great advice and practical ideas for guiding your child into maturity. One idea that was new to me was that the “internally motivated” child will not be motivated by external controls, such as rewards, punishment, parents or peers. That’s great for the child who has a strong conscience. Strong-willed children are also internally motivated; that’s why they are difficult to influence. This book gives many ideas for reaching the heart of the strong-willed, internally motivated child. When these children have a heart change, their internal motivation will be a strong guiding force for good.

The first part of the book deals with the moral development of children, teaching them to:

  • do what’s right
  • deal with wrongs
  • be honest
  • care about others

The second part of the book focuses on the spiritual development of children. Because the Holy Spirit guides the conscience, spiritual development is an integral part of learning to be self-motivated to be responsible, caring, and honest. Again, this section of the book is full of practical ideas for children and teens of any age.

I underlined many passages as I read through this book and know I will refer back to it frequently. I appreciated that reaching teens was addressed as often as teaching young children, helping the reader realize that it is never too late to reach a child.

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Wednesday, January 28, 2015


To continue our genetics study this week, the students made “spudoodles,” potato people that demonstrated the principles of inheritance.P1050088



Each student started with two envelopes, each containing scraps of colored paper representing the genes of one parent for various traits. They copied down the genetic information for each parent onto their worksheets. Then they filled out Punnett squares for each trait to figure out the possible genetic makeup of the offspring.


Next, they picked one gene for each trait from each parent to determine the baby spudoodle’s genotype and phenotype and figured out the percentage chance of that particular genetic make-up.

Then came the fun part—building the spudoodles. Each potato baby had different traits—ears or no ears; hair or no hair; small, medium, or large mouth, and so on.  You can find the complete instructions and worksheets for the Spudoodle project here.


Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Purex PowerShot (Giveaway)

Purex has just come out with a brand new product, PowerShot Laundry Detergent. The unique bottle design is drip proof and automatically dispenses the perfect amount of detergent. Personally, I’ve never found it burdensome to measure detergent in the cap, but those drippy bottles can be irritating. However, I know that my children probably use too much detergent when they run a load. That can’t happen with this bottle! No wasted or spilled detergent = saved money!


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Tuesday, January 20, 2015

“Drugging” our Fruit Flies


As I was preparing to order our drosophila (fruit fly) cultures, I encountered a small problem. Carolina Lab would not ship their “Fly Nap” to a residential address. Fly Nap is their recommended way to temporarily knock out the flies for the students to examine them and separate them by sex or trait. They did sell a carbon dioxide system for drugging the flies, but it only came with 8 CO2 pellets, which probably wouldn’t have been enough, making it more expensive. I did some online research and found an easy and free way to knock out the flies.

Chilling fruit flies immobilizes them. They wake up quickly when returned to room temperature. We used a modification of the technique found at:  This is what we did:

  1. Place an empty vial in ice for several minutes.
  2. Tap the vial containing flies to be transferred against a table to knock the flies to the bottom. Quickly unstop the vial and invert it over the chilled empty vial.
  3. Hold the two vials together and tap against the table until the flies have been knocked into the chilled vial. Replace stoppers.
  4. The chilled flies can then be dumped onto a plate that has been placed on top of a bowl of ice to chill. Flies will remain unconscious as long as they are on the chilled plate. Students can then examine them, sort them, and discard them into a morgue or place them in vials for new crosses.

This worked very well, eliminated all risks to students or flies by the use of ether or other chemicals and cost nothing. You can read more detailed procedures at:

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Genetics with Fruit Flies


Our Apologia Biology text didn’t have any actual genetics experiments for Module 8, so I decided to add one. The students will be breeding and studying fruit flies (drosophila) for the next month to reinforce their study of genetics.

The flies that I ordered (and yes, the students were astounded that I actually paid for fruit flies!) were of two types: wild (winged) and apterous (wingless). Both types had sex-linked traits of yellow bodies and red eyes for females and gray bodies with white eyes for males. We won’t be going into much discussion of the principles of sex-linked traits, but these features will make it much easier to differentiate males and females.

On week one, the students read parts of the Carolina Drosophila manual and filled out some worksheets on the characteristics of drosophila and made predictions about the resulting F1 and F2 crosses if the wild trait were dominant and if the apterous trait were dominant. I didn’t tell them which was dominant—they will have to figure that out for themselves.P1050081

Next, we examined the flies with magnifying glasses and identified the traits we were looking for—winged vs. wingless, eye color, and body color. We also observed the larvae and pupae in the vials. I had discarded the adult flies the previous day, to ensure that we were only dealing with young, virgin flies.

Then they separated the flies of each type into male and female and started the F1 crosses by putting several wild males with several apterous females in one vial and several wild females with apterous males in the other vial.  We did have a small problem in that only about 6-8 new adult flies had appeared since I cleared the vials, so Emily and I had to add new adult flies over the 2 days following our lab day.


For the remainder of our lab class, we did some chapter review. Then we worked together to create a Punnett Square for a dihybrid cross of a green legged, diamond backed turtle (dominant traits) with a yellow-legged square patterned back turtle (recessive traits).  The students made up our fictional turtle characteristics—no resemblance to real life!

In two weeks, after the F1 generation of fruit flies hatches, we will start the F2 generation.

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Stressing out our Kindergarteners

I just read a Washington Post piece questioning the Common Core requirements for Kindergarten students to learn to read. Report: Requiring kindergarteners to read—as Common Core does—may harm some echoed concerns that I have had for years about our educational expectations for young children. Pushing young children into early academics has been an increasing trend in recent years. This isn’t new with Common Core Standards, but the new standards do seem to be solidifying the practice. In our district, even Pre-K 4 year olds take standardized tests on the computer!

My children were all early readers. The three oldest were all reading fluently by age five, and the fourth wasn’t too far behind. They all learned to read through snuggle on the couch time with Mommy, not with worksheets and drill, and, most importantly, they were ready to learn! They each reached a point where it all “clicked” and their reading just took off. Some kids will reach this point at four; others will reach it at six or seven. Does it really help a child to spend hours of drill memorizing concepts before they are ready to learn? Or will it just frustrate the child and turn him off to learning altogether?

Although my children were ahead of average academically, I still did not feel that it was developmentally appropriate for them to spend hours a day doing seatwork. I am so grateful that we had the opportunity to homeschool. In Kindergarten, they spent probably an hour a day doing seat work. The rest of our day was spent reading great books, doing crafts and simply science experiments, and most importantly, playing. They had time to use their imaginations, to create, and to realize that learning is fun. They all grew up just fine.

I’m not advocating not teaching young children, especially ones who are a little later along the developmental process. I do believe that education for younger children should be hands-on, play-based, and given in small doses. Learning can be incorporated into every aspect of life; it’s not confined to working through pages in a workbook. Textbooks have their places, but balance is so important. I feel sad for kindergarteners who have full-day school with little or no in-school playtime. And what happens when little 5-year-old Johnny doesn’t meet the new reading standards? How will he feel about himself when he’s marked as a failure so young?

A generation or two ago, children were taught to read in the first grade. I wonder if our children are really achieving more in the long run because we push academic skills on them at age 4 or 5. I would love to see a comparison of  6th graders in 1960 vs. 6th graders now. Are today’s kids smarter? Given the widespread concern over failing schools and students, I doubt it.

Any thoughts?

Monday, January 12, 2015

“Motivate Your Child” Huge Giveaway

Over the years, I’ve read many many parenting books. I don’t read many anymore just because there is so much repetition between books.  Just a few months ago, though, I read The Christian Parenting Handbook, and found it extremely helpful. The focus is on reaching the heart of your children rather than simply changing the outward behavior. The book is full of practical helps, but the emphasis is always on the heart.

The same authors have just published a brand-new book, Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told.  I’ve only read the first chapter so far, but can tell that this book will be just as good. Given that motivating my child is one of my biggest parenting struggles, I am really hoping that the book will offer me some practical, life-changing help! I’ll be writing a review once I’ve finished reading it.

To celebrate the release of Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told,  members of the Launch Team are sharing a wonderful giveaway filled with a Go Pro Camera, $50 Mardel Gift Card, $25 Amazon Gift Card, and book bundles from both the National Center for Biblical Parenting and Thomas Nelson Publishing! Three winners will win prizes with a total value of nearly $800! motivate your child giveaway Here’s what you could win: 

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Friday, January 9, 2015

Teaching the “sh” Sound

This is an excerpt from Super Star Speech: Expanded Edition. Super Star Speech includes practice materials, picture cards, and games to teach almost every speech sound. More practice materials are available at

teaching sh


SH is produced with the tongue tip raised and placed just behind the gum ridge. The tongue position is slightly behind the tongue position for S. The tongue sides contact the upper side teeth so that the airflow is directed over the tongue tip. Lips are slightly rounded.


1. Demonstrate tongue placement and lip rounding, using a mirror.

2. Develop SH from S. Have the child hold an S sound while slowly sliding his tongue back until SH is produced. A drill of TH-SSS-SHH may be helpful. Use the analogy of a turtle sliding his head back into his shell.

3. If the SH is too “hard,” sounding like a CH, instruct the child to say it slowly and softly. Have him draw out the sound for several seconds, perhaps blowing on his hand or a feather.

4. If air is leaking around the sides of the tongue, producing a distorted or lisping SH, have the child practice widening and narrowing his tongue, using a mirror. The tongue should be widened in the production of SH. Touch the sides of his tongue and instruct him to press the tongue sides against the back teeth. It may be helpful to lower the tongue tip with a popsicle stick to allow airflow over the top of the tongue rather than around the sides of the tongue.


This activity will help your child contrast the /sh/ sound with /s/ and /ch/.

Say each word pair as quickly as you can:

Sea --- she

Sell --- shell

Sort ---short

Sin --- shin

Sue --- shoe

Sip --- ship

Ship – chip

Chin –shin

Cheat – sheet

Shoe – chew

Share – chair

Sheep – cheap

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Motivate Your Child!

I am excited to share with you about a new book I’m reading this month -- Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told. Doesn’t that sound amazing? I know that in my home, motivating my child is one of my biggest challenges!

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God's Word gives us a better way to parent, one that builds strong internal motivation in children. When parents change the way they parent, kids change the way they live.Motivate Your Child is a practical book that explores a theology of internal motivation and then gives parents real-life solutions to equip their kids for life.
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Saturday, January 3, 2015

Word for 2015: Love


I’ve decided that my word for this year will be “love.” I would like for my home to characterized by love rather than by strife. I want to focus on responding to others with love in all my relationships, especially with those people who are difficult to love.

I also want to look for more ways to reach out beyond my circle of family and friends to show love this year.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 

I Cor. 13:4-8 NIV